Help me choose between two sweet sixteen ideas!?

I would choose option 2. (reason 1) I like the fact that there are plenty of things to do there. With Opt.1, some people don't enjoy dancing in public, so that might turn away a few of your guests. Opt.2, refer to reason 1. Reason #2 You won't have to worry about people possible comparing your party to the party the other girl had. Reason #3 You can have a lot of snack foods. With Opt.1, you can still have snack foods, but if I was going to a formal party, I would expect some kind of fancish dinner, of course with finger foods. For your movie choice, I would bring 4 or 5 movies, a couple funny, a couple scary and let the guests decide. It is your party, but they are the guest. Or you could find a movie that was funny, scary, and scandalous, but I can't think of one of the top of my mind. Also, If people somehow start getting bored at Opt.2, you can always think of games to play, and it wouldn't be as akward. Happy very early 16th birthday!